“Sometimes you can’t see yourself clearly until you see yourself through the eyes of others.” — Ellen DeGeneres
Spring has arrived…and not a moment too soon! After a long cold winter, I welcome the warmth of the sun, the melting snow and tiny bits of green grass peeking through the brown.
At Bethany, spring signals the end of our fiscal year and a time to look back at what has happened. Within all levels of the organization, we are completing our reviews and receiving assessments on our performance for the past year. While some of the comments will be positive and some will be constructive, there is often uneasiness felt on both sides, giving and receiving. One of the keys to success both personally and professionally, is to be receptive to feedback. So how do we receive feedback graciously and what should we do with it?
Here are some suggestions:
- Be approachable. Keep an open mind and emotions in check. We want to continue to receive feedback in order to help achieve one’s full potential. My mom often says that if she has stopped giving me feedback, I should be concerned because she has given up on me.
- Seek understanding. If necessary, ask questions to get clarity on your evaluation. Request for specific examples and tips on how to improve.
- Restate the points made to your supervisor and confirm that you have correctly interpreted their comments.
- Reflect on the feedback. Take an honest look at yourself and consider if changes need to be made. This is often the most difficult and humbling part of the process.
- Take action. Lay out steps to initiate change and follow through.
“The past is to prove that no one is perfect and the future is to prove that everyone can change.” — A. Loan
The new fiscal year signifies an opportunity for new beginnings and the use of feedback for improvement and growth. Thank you for taking the time to read this message and feel free to reach me with your comments or questions at Doreen.Lee@Bethanyseniors.com.
— Doreen